
Shane went to Spokane with one of his friends today to go to a golf expo. Lilly and I got to spend the WHOLE day together. It started out rough with a very whiny child and I have to say I was skeptical about how the rest of the day would go. We ended up going to McDonald's, because it has a play land, and we bought lunch as well. My dear friend, Carrie, came with her little son, Cody and of course baby Macey. We chatted and played in a very, very busy play land. The kids were a bit overwhelmed. One little boy, about Lilly's age, randomly walked up to her and pushed her across the room. It was interesting. He tried it one more time and I told him he was being a bad boy. Carrie gave him the evil eye as well. I know you are all thinking...where was his mother??? Oh sitting with everybody else at play land not watching their children. Carrie and I were seriously some of the only moms watching our kids.
After play land we walked over to the dollar store and had another adventure. I thought I'd splurge...(I know, seriously, a dollar) and get Lilly a balloon. Well everything was great and all until she handed the balloon over with out a weight at the bottom. Seriously what was that balloon blower thinking? Probably that I only paid a dollar and that's all I deserve, but obviously they don't have kids. I tried to tie the thing to Lil's wrist so we wouldn't lose it, but oh no--NOT HAPPENING. Some serious attitude came out with yelling and screaming about how I shouldn't touch her balloon and it was HERS!!! Ok, well we get up to the register to pay and one lady in the back of the line notices I'm having issues with my child and the balloon and says...
"Mommy, tie the balloon around her wrist."
I about lost it at that point! One more final attempt failed and we were outside with a screaming child, somehow we did manage to keep that DARNED BALLOON THOUGH!!! Never again will I buy her another balloon at the dollar store. I guess I might have to pay a bit more for a weight--money well spent. LESSON LEARNED!
We came home and I put Lil down for a nap and I must say, I enjoyed a little R&R as well. After her nap, we went for a
BEAUTIFUL walk outside. It was so gorgeous that I could feel my stress melting away.
Walking outside totally rejuvenates me and makes me appreciate all the many things I've been given. I forgot about the pushing at Mickey Dee's, the balloon drama, and my resentment for my hubby taking off to Spokane with out me. I got to thinking that the mother at McDonald's probably had no clue that her child was being a bully and the lady at the Dollar store really was trying to help improve my situation. Most of all I thought about how much my husband loves golf and really needed a little R&R himself after a long week of hard classes and work. It's been a day full of friends, fun, drama, beauty, gratitude and most of all---
REALITY.